Would you teach him if you could? In comparison, my partner seems to have engaged in a lot more casual sex. The third girl I saw was going particularly well, we had spent a lot of time together and really, really hit it off well, and both had said how much we liked each other a lot. The societal pressure to perform gets them stuck in their head. It is better that these issues come to the surface before marriage than within marriage. I won't put you down at anytime, but I might guide you on how to improve, in a gentle caring way. Thinking about the other girls he's been with before would really bother me
So yeah, in my opinion, virgins guys are better.
Originally Posted by onihC. I think he'll understand if I'm more direct with him about what I want. I do want to have sex with him in the future and I like him so much, but is this a red flag that he takes it so personally when I stop him from making me uncomfortable sexually? It is just part of life and part of coming of age for the majority of young men. Honestly, I guess it would depend on the girl. So much of authentic love is simply about giving and not seeking something in return. Follow City-Data.